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A Seasonal Focus: A Gentle Alternative to New Year’s Resolutions
Instead of setting rigid New Year’s resolutions, this post explores a seasonal focus, a gentler, more realistic way of living with intention. Rather than committing to who you’ll be all year, a seasonal focus invites you to choose what supports you right now, allowing room for change, adjustment, and care as life evolves.

Jennifer Bonilla
Jan 6


I Joined the Fearless Practice Podcast to Talk About Building a Culturally Responsive Therapy Practice
I joined the Fearless Practice Podcast as a guest to share my journey into becoming a therapist, what inspired me to start my own private practice, and why culturally responsive therapy is at the heart of my work. In this conversation, we explore cultural identity, belonging, and the unique pressures many first-generation and BIPOC clients navigate. I also talk about growing a practice slowly and intentionally, making decisions from a place of stability rather than fear.

Jennifer Bonilla
Nov 21, 2025


People-Pleasing and Boundaries: Why Saying No Feels So Hard (and How to Start)
Saying no can feel impossible when you’ve been taught to please, help, and keep the peace. This post explores how people-pleasing shapes boundaries, why guilt feels so heavy, and how to begin setting limits with compassion and confidence.

Jennifer Bonilla
Nov 16, 2025


Why Do I Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People, and What That Pattern Really Means
Ever wonder why you keep finding yourself with partners who can’t fully show up? This post explores the deeper patterns behind emotional unavailability, from family dynamics and attachment to nervous-system cues that confuse chaos with connection, and how awareness, self-trust, and compassion begin to shift the story.

Jennifer Bonilla
Nov 1, 2025


How to Stop Overthinking: A Free Therapist-Created Guide to Gently Reset Your Mind
Ever wish your mind had a pause button? This free therapist-created guide helps you understand your overthinking, calm your thoughts, and reconnect with yourself through gentle awareness and reflection.

Jennifer Bonilla
Oct 26, 2025


Why Do I Avoid My Feelings? Understanding Emotional Shutdowns and Healing
When emotions start to feel “too much,” it’s easy to shut down and call it strength. But emotional avoidance often hides quiet exhaustion beneath the calm. In this post, we explore why you might avoid your feelings, how family and culture shape that response, and gentle ways to reconnect with yourself, one safe step at a time.

Jennifer Bonilla
Oct 20, 2025


Rest Is Not a Reward: How to Rest Without Guilt or Burnout
If you’ve ever said, “I’ll rest when I’m done,” this one’s for you. So many of us treat rest like something we have to earn, but your body doesn’t need permission to pause. In this post, we’ll explore why slowing down feels so hard, how guilt sneaks in, and how to rest without burnout or shame, no productivity required.

Jennifer Bonilla
Oct 6, 2025


How to Build Self Trust (Even If You’ve Spent Years Second-Guessing Yourself)
Ever find yourself rereading a text five times or asking everyone and everyone before making a decision? You’re not alone. In this post, we’ll explore how to build self-trust, why it feels so hard, how family and cultural expectations play a role, and practical steps to start strengthening your confidence so you can finally feel grounded in your own choices.

Jennifer Bonilla
Sep 21, 2025


Setting Boundaries Without Guilt: Family, Friends, and Beyond
You’ve drafted a text, erased it three times, asked two friends what they think, and you’re still not sure if you should hit send. Sound familiar? Overthinking and guilt make boundaries feel impossible, but it doesn’t have to stay that way.”

Jennifer Bonilla
Sep 8, 2025


Why You Keep Second-Guessing Yourself (and How to Stop).
Do you find yourself replaying every decision, questioning if you got it “right”? Second-guessing isn’t a weakness, it’s often a reflection of how you learned to stay safe. In this post, we explore why it shows up and how you can begin to trust yourself again.

Jennifer Bonilla
Aug 23, 2025


Culturally Sensitive Therapy Ontario: Supporting Every Season of Your Life
Hello, and welcome! I’m so glad you’ve found your way to the blog. My name is Jennifer, and I’m the founder and Registered Psychotherapist here at Therapy Across Seasons, offering culturally sensitive therapy in Ontario for BIPOC adults. I’m passionate about helping clients build emotional clarity , develop self-trust , and heal relationships while feeling understood and supported in the context of their cultural background. In this blog, I’ll share a bit about who I am, the

Jennifer Bonilla
Aug 15, 2025
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